Not Saying Goodbye to My Daughter (Part 2)

Zhang Zhaohong When Weiwei met her life partner Keith Gilray, they formed a happy relationship. After marriage, they had two lively and lovely boys. In order to facilitate the photo...

Zhang Zhaohong

When Weiwei met her life partner Keith Gilray, they formed a happy relationship. After marriage, they had two lively and lovely boys. In order to make it easier to take care of our grandchildren, we bought a house near our daughter so that our daughter and son-in-law can work without worries. Weiwei takes good care of her children and takes care of them lovingly and wholeheartedly. She is a rare good wife and mother.

She cultivates children to be kind-hearted, polite and well-behaved. The couple also encouraged their children's interests in playing the piano, flute, singing, and arranging dramas. Weiwei never spared the money spent on this. When the children performed, not only did the whole family come to support them, but they also recorded the performances. Spending money is not the only thing, taking time to accompany your children's growth is the most important thing.

Parents and their eldest son Le Tao

The younger son Le Long

The sudden death of Weiwei makes us feel extremely sad! Her relatives and friends felt extremely sad, and many deaf-mute people cried for her! She donated all her organs, turned her body into a plume of smoke, and scattered her ashes naturally. She is like a fairy who came down from the mortal world. With kindness, love and sincerity, after helping countless deaf-mute people and small animals, she returns to the heaven, leaving without a trace of clouds!

And her good deeds and great love have also aroused widespread repercussions in society. There were only ten days between her death and the funeral, but her life has been widely circulated on the Internet and WeChat groups to this day. Among the hundreds of messages from home and abroad, many expressed their condolences and prayed for her, many praised her character, and many offered help to her family.

The Cantonese People's Association of Southern California was the first group to initiate a donation drive for the Xue Wei family. As of January 20, forty well-wishers had participated, including Zhang Sujiu, Chen Canpei and other well-known overseas Chinese leaders in the American overseas community. The donation was initiated by Counselor Xie (Angie) of the Southern California Cantonese Association, with strong support from President Mening, and careful management by Ms. Liang Yuxia. (Many of them are friends who have participated in the "California Gold Rush Tour"). The donation has been sent. We would like to express our deepest gratitude!

There are also benevolent people from all walks of life in the overseas Chinese community in Phoenix City who have donated money, and they are still making donations. We are deeply grateful for this! grateful! Thanks and remembered! What is most appreciated about Xue Wei is her true, kind and beautiful character, her conscientiousness in serving the disadvantaged groups, and her spirit of love and dedication. There are countless messages, but I would like to select some to share with you:

Blessings Tucson, Arizona

I am shocked to hear that your family has lost its beloved daughter, Weiwei. The bad news has shocked family and friends.

Weiwei used her short years to compose a chapter of great love, bringing it to the people and animals around her. Her great love has spread all over the three cities in Arizona. Weiwei used her ordinary life to win the honor of Miss Chinese, established a warm family and raised two lovely children, and helped countless disabled and disadvantaged groups. We, the group, are proud of you and your wife for raising such an outstanding angel.

> May the deceased rest in peace, may the living be strong, and may the future be peaceful and peaceful! May the two children grow up healthily!

>Charlie Los Angeles

Your daughter is amazing. She has a beautiful and generous appearance, but her inner beauty is her excellence. She is full of love and devotes her whole life to the cause of deaf-mute and blind people. She was open-minded and great, and after her death she donated all her available organs to those in need. Although I have never met her, I was moved by what she did in her life. She used her short life to bring smiles and happiness to countless people. She is a role model for our times and a positive image of Chinese Americans. We miss her. She is a true angel and will definitely keep you and your family safe and healthy. Please take good care of Brother Zhaohong and his family!

Wind Blowing Perrin Southern California

We were so sad to hear the bad news and lose our beloved daughter. Xavier left us, she just walked out of time. She will turn into flowers, trees, rivers and mountains, growing freely in every corner of the world. She comes from this world and returns to this world. I think that in this life, she will be very happy, satisfied, and very proud of you, having such good children and grandchildren! You must also take care of yourself, and Xue Wei's love will always be by your side, care for you, support you and protect you. You also have the love, care, and support of so many of our friends! Condolences!

Celine Florida

I am deeply saddened by the passing of Miss Vicki. Despite her young age, she has great potential and a bright future. The void she left behind in this world. However, her legacy will be carried on and carried forward by those who share the same vision and love for society. Together we will honor her memory and continue the journey she started.

Kirsten Nelson Phoenix (Internet Message Translation)

As a passionate sign language interpreter, Meme has dedicated her life to helping others, weaving compassion into the lives she touches. She left suddenly! adds a poignant layer to the memory of this remarkable figure who left an indelible mark on the hearts of those who knew her.

>Word Play Phoenix

Let us surround their families with love and support and let them know that even in their darkest days, they are not alone. Jaclyn Moats Phoenix Very sad to hear this news. Meme has always been kind to me, especially when I'm going through a particularly difficult time in my life. The world is a bleak place without her. Sending love and peace to Meme’s family.

>Charlie California

Your daughter is amazing. She has a beautiful and generous appearance, but her inner beauty is her excellence. She is full of love and devotes her whole life to the cause of deaf-mute and blind people. She was open-minded and great, and after her death she donated all her available organs to those in need. Although I have never met her, I was moved by what she did in her life. She used her short life to bring smiles and happiness to countless people. She is a role model for our times and a positive image of Chinese Americans. We miss her. She is a true angel and will definitely keep you and your family safe and healthy. Please take good care of Brother Zhaohong and his family!

Write, write, the father's longing and true love for his daughter permeate between the lines, and occasionally there will be a few tears.

Write, write, let us know more about this angel’s life story and how she brings warmth and sunshine to countless people around her.

Write, write, many people want to know why some lives are heavier than Mount Tai.

Write, write, maybe a new book with the word "𦘦" in it will inspire and help others.

Write, write, I just hope that after writing, you can feel a little more calm and comforted.

Her desperate efforts and selfless dedication have exhausted her, let her rest in peace.

>Xue Haipei DC

>Although I have never met your daughter, I hear so many friends talking about your good daughter. I am extremely sad and sorry, and I am extremely proud of Homer, an amazing father! You can say to heaven that as a father, I have tried my best to raise a beautiful and kind daughter. Although her life was short (all of our lives are actually only a few "hours" apart, there is no big difference), she shined brightly and illuminated the world like a meteor flashing across the night sky. In fact, a person cannot do much in his life. It is enough to raise a good daughter.

>Tang Xiaoxian Phoenix City

I always feel that Xue Wei is still in the world, and her great love will always be remembered in people's hearts; the organs she donated live in the bodies of transplant recipients. I wish my loved ones have condolences and take care of themselves.

>Zhang Huafang Phoenix City

Life is impermanent, life is fragile, and accidents are only one night away from tomorrow. Cherish the present and may the deceased rest in peace. There are countless regrets in life. The biggest regret this time is that I can't see my sister off for the last time. During my journey, every time I thought of her, my heart ached. In such a wonderful time, children still need to be taken care of, and parents need to be filial. My sister passed away... I hope we can cheer up and continue tomorrow. Cherish the people in front of you! I hope there will be no pain in heaven!

Our daughter is ordinary. If her character can be praised by everyone, maybe it is because there are still all kinds of comparisons, greed and vanity in this real world, which touches the return of human nature to the lowest level of love and kindness, the return to traditional family virtues and the education of children. This may be the prayer and desire of people. If Siu Wei can use her short life to awaken some conscience in society, this will be her greatest luck.

Don’t say goodbye to your daughter!

If there is something ordinary and great about Xue Wei, it is her maternal love. Every year, my daughter selects photos from the photo album in the cloud and prints them into a photo album as a souvenir. It can be seen from this that the children's childhood is very happy. Parents carefully allow them to learn and practice all aspects of knowledge, and get in touch with animals, nature, science, sports, music and other enlightenment education. While enjoying the warmth and happiness of the family, they do not forget to cultivate their children's love and love for nature. This is the greatness of maternal love and the happiest memory in the children's lives. The photo album will be shared with everyone after editing.

January 23, 2024