As the divorce rate rises, we cannot ignore the fact that extramarital affairs have become the biggest killer

As the divorce rate rises, we cannot ignore the fact that extramarital affairs have become the biggest killer. According to Hong Kong's "Wen Wei Po", China News Service reported that in the first three quarters of this year, there were an average of more than 30,000 couples every day...

China News Service, according to Hong Kong's "Wen Wei Po", reported that data showed that in the first three quarters of this year, an average of more than 30,000 couples gathered at the civil affairs department to receive marriage certificates. In 2010, an average of more than 5,300 couples ended their marriages every day. Statistics show that among the divorce cases in Haidian District Court in Beijing last year, the proportion of prosecutions citing the husband's "cheating" as the main reason was as high as 60%, and 20% of the divorce cases in Dongcheng Court were caused by "affair." It can be said that extramarital affairs have become the biggest killer of marriages. An excerpt from the article is as follows: China has always advocated that "everything thrives when the family is harmonious." However, this traditional family concept is being impacted by the rising divorce rate. The latest data shows that in the first three quarters of this year, an average of more than 30,000 couples gathered at the civil affairs department to receive marriage certificates every day. In 2010, an average of more than 5,300 couples ended their marriages every day. What is the reason that causes so many couples to separate their jobs? Some sociologists bluntly said that the main reasons for the increase in extramarital affairs and the decline in responsibility are all due to impetuousness. In this real world full of temptations, can the traditional Chinese excellent family values ​​be restored? Food for thought. Statistics show that among the divorce cases in Haidian District Court in Beijing last year, the proportion of prosecutions citing the husband's "cheating" as the main reason was as high as 60%, and 20% of the divorce cases in Dongcheng Court were caused by "affair." It can be said that extramarital affairs have become the biggest killer of marriages. In China, once known as the country with the most stable marriages in the world, the divorce rate has also begun to "increase." Experts bluntly say that impetuousness under the temptation of reality is the root cause. In the impetuous atmosphere, people's sense of social responsibility has begun to decline, and even extramarital affairs, which are despised by people, are no longer secretive. And "quick marriage", "flash marriage", "flash divorce", etc. are quietly becoming the models that many young people are keen on, and there are more and more phenomena of "falling in love at first sight, getting married; and getting divorced in anger". Many people don’t realize that divorce may affect more than just two people, and the consequences can be multifaceted. The most obvious is the pain and harm caused to children. Statistics show that children from single-parent families have more psychological problems, and the crime rate is three times that of children from two-parent families. The "easy to get together and easy to break up" in marriage shows the liberation of human nature and the development of freedom, which is a social progress worthy of recognition. But this does not mean that people can ignore the seriousness and value of marriage, indulge in extramarital affairs, and divorce as they please. Chinese society is undergoing drastic social changes and transformations, but the "harmony" and sense of responsibility for society and family that have been passed down for thousands of years should not be lost, but should also be strengthened. Because only "family harmony" can "all things prosper".