If there is humor, life will not be lonely

If there is humor, life will not be lonely Dai Chenzhi Language is the starting point of laughter and happiness; language is also the tipping point of disaster and pain! There is a story saying...

With humor, life will not be lonely Dai Chenzhi Language is the starting point of laughter and happiness; language is also the tipping point of disaster and pain! There is a story: There was a couple traveling by train, but along the way, the wife kept mumbling, sometimes complaining that the train was moving too slowly, sometimes complaining that the air conditioner was too cold, or the service staff had a bad attitude. But her husband, although he closed his eyes to concentrate, his ears were not free, and he had to endure the wife's nagging. Later, when the husband had the opportunity, he turned around and greeted the passengers next to him politely. When other passengers asked about their occupations, the husband replied: "I am the owner of a small company, and my wife is a famous manufacturer!" Oh, manufacturer? What product are you manufacturing? "Other travelers asked curiously. The teacher said seriously: "Specialized in creating unhappiness!" Some people's lives are full of joy and joy, while others are full of sorrow and unhappiness! Of course, our own state of mind is very important, but the people we get along with are also very important. If our significant other or work partner has a very serious personality, is not humorous, not interesting, and is not romantic, and even often nags, dislikes, complains, or thinks negatively about everything, then life will be like a "manufacturer" - specializing in creating unhappiness. Therefore, Newton once said: "A happy life is caused by happy thoughts." And the famous Hollywood movie star Brad Pitt also said: "A sense of humor is more important than sexiness!" Why? Because if a beautiful woman is only beautiful and sexy, but is indifferent every day, does not smile, and does not know how to be humorous and easy to joke, she will not be popular! Similarly, men don’t have to be sexy and show off their muscles all the time, but they have to be smart, funny, and have a sense of humor to be cute! Recently, a female student asked me a question: "Teacher, I will give you a brain teaser - what will make the people above you happy and the people below you happy?" "Ah? How do you want me to answer this question?" I was speechless for a moment and didn't know how to start. "Teacher, you can't do it, are you? Or are you embarrassed to say it?" The female student said proudly: "How can you be embarrassed? The answer is -'concert'!" "Teacher, come again, let me test you again!" The female student asked enthusiastically: "What do Mr. Liu and Mrs. Liu do every day when they sleep?" "Ah? What does this guy want me to say?" I hesitated again. "Teacher, don't be shy! If you think about it carefully, it's okay to speak loudly!" The female student kept urging me, but I still didn't know how to answer. "Teacher, there's nothing embarrassing to say. What you have to do when you sleep is to 'close your eyes'!" the female student said with a smile. Communication Motto "Humor" is a kind of energy and romance. It can increase the intimacy between people! Therefore, "If there is laughter, there will be no war; if there is humor, there will be no loneliness!" In modern society, the economy is in recession, life is compact and hectic, and everyone is under great work pressure; however, people always need to learn to use "humor and romance" to relieve their emotional pressure, so that they can have a happy and open-minded life! As the saying goes, "Everything is based on the mind, and the environment changes with the mind." As long as there is love and humor in the heart, the corners of the person's mouth will turn upward, and there will be laughter and happiness. Therefore, the "Four Ls" are the directions we can learn from, that is - "Love, Learn, Listen, Laugh". In other words, "As long as there is love in your heart, you continue to learn and grow, and you continue to listen to others, your life will be full of laughter!" Language is the starting point of laughter and happiness; language can also be the tipping point of disaster and pain! If you speak with care, affirmation and humor, you will be full of "pleasure and taste"; if you speak with complaints, accusations and jealousy, you will be full of "conflict and sourness"!