Parents take care of themselves first, then take care of their children - Liao Bing's emotional intelligence family education

Parents take care of themselves first, then their children - Liao Bing's emotional intelligence family education "Remember when you were holding branches in your hands, walking around on the street, thinking about...

Liao Bing at the lecture at the Modern Chinese School

Liao Bing at the lecture at the Modern Chinese School (2)

Liao Bing in hope Literary school lecture

The theme of this lecture is family education based on emotional intelligence. Liao Bing pointed out that it is particularly important to establish a good parent-child relationship. The relationship between parents and children can be compared to an emotional bank. A tense relationship with a child is equivalent to a deposit. Everyone wants to have more savings in their accounts. However, many parents behave in the opposite direction. They think they have experience and hope to choose a path they think is right for their children. They have been investing in the emotional bank, which has greatly damaged the parent-child relationship. They also insist on thinking that they are doing their best for their children. If this behavior is not stopped in time, the children may close the account. , parents are blocked from even good opportunities for their children, causing irreparable harm. Establishing a good parent-child relationship is the foundation, and discovering the child's inner drive to learn is the core. Observe and discover the child's hobbies, and actively help and encourage their development. Don't force the child to do things they don't like to do. It's normal for the child not to do it. After listening to Dr. Liao Bing's lecture, I feel that parents are not going back to "fix" their children, but it is a process of "self-repair" for parents. Emotional intelligence family education is to educate parents to understand their own emotions, manage their own emotions, adjust the perspective of educating children, and think from the perspective of their children. Only by meeting the above key elements of emotional intelligence can a healthy parent-child relationship be established. Parents' standards should be higher to see if their children are happy. Cultivating a healthy personality is more important than going to an "Ivy League school." The pressure on Asian parents also comes from comparisons within the community. Don't ask about other people's children. Whether other people's children are good or not has nothing to do with your child. Don't ask around and make blind comparisons, which will only cause harm to yourself and your children. You should teach your children in accordance with their aptitude and cultivate a healthy and happy child.