10 Things You Don’t Dislike You Must Remember (Must Read)

> 10 Things You Don’t Dislike You Must Remember (Must Read) Zhang Zhaohong 1: Age is not a capital. Everything is worth some money these days, but age is not. In my heart...

Zhang Zhaohong

>One thing to remember: age is not a capital. Everything is worth some money these days, but age is not. Don't have so many "shoulds" or "shouldn'ts" in your mind. There is nothing wrong with calling you "old man". Calling you "old sir" is the other person's upbringing and has nothing to do with you. It is biological instinct for young people to gain the upper hand by relying on their strength. If someone offers you a seat, you must remember to say "thank you". That is because you are lucky enough to meet a good person.

Second, remember: "Thinking about those days" is not something everyone likes to hear. Today is not the time to remember the bitter and the sweet. No one wants to enjoy your glorious history and ups and downs. After all, times have changed. The wild vegetables you have eaten have now become high-end delicacies; the land you reclaimed has now destroyed the ecology. The story of the Red Army boiling leather belts to satisfy their hunger makes it difficult for young people to understand. Nowadays, cooking a leather belt is not as economical as stewing several kilograms of meat. Therefore, the topic of "thinking about the past" should be stopped in moderation. After all, "then" is not as practical as "today".

Three things to remember: stay out of your own business, especially "nosy" at home. The education of your grandchildren is your children’s business, not yours. This is the era of "Ultraman" and "Big Big Wolf", and you are still talking about "there was a mountain once upon a time, and there was a temple on the mountain". That's called being tireless! When getting along with your children, you must not chatter endlessly. You must have a sense of the position of the "CPPCC". It must be in place, but not offside or misplaced. Take a stand on important matters, don't worry about whether you listen or not. Your children respect you when they ask for your opinion, and you should take the initiative to pursue your own leisure.

> Fourth, remember: "Young people must be busier than you." If you miss your child, you can make a phone call. If your child misses you, you may not even have time to make a phone call. Never take this kind of thing seriously and compare it with yourself. Remember: complaining too much will "lose both sides". If your child really comes to see you, don't find any reason to force him to stay. Children's "spending time" is the same as "spending money". They use gold to buy time. It's a good thing if they can spare a minute to see you. If you don't give your children a relaxed environment to "spend time", they will only see you less and less in the future.

Five things to remember: Don’t think about rewards when giving voluntarily, and don’t always talk about the things you do for others. There is no one who doesn’t complain about helping your children with cooking, laundry and taking care of the children, but don’t talk about it in front of your children. If you understand or don't understand, be more calm and treat it as a volunteer for society. Some things may not always be compared with one's heart. "Respecting the old and loving the young" always puts "loving the young" first, because the "rising sun" can always make people look forward to it more than the "sunset". Remember: "Giving" is something given to others. Don't think about getting it back "to make up for it", as that will make everyone unhappy.

> Six things to remember: Don’t always think about changing others. The girl next door puts on short skirts and stockings as soon as it's warm but still cold. That's because girls like to be "beautiful and cold." My husband is messy and unable to do things perfectly. This is a "stubborn disease" that is hard to change for many years. In fact, everyone has their own habits and ways of living, and there is no absolute right or wrong. If you can't change others, try changing yourself. In fact, it's difficult to change yourself. Instead of this, it is better to coexist peacefully. It is better to be indifferent than to point fingers.

> Seven things to remember: Don’t be too stingy when dealing with others, and be straightforward and generous no matter how much money you have. Not only for relatives and friends, but also for children who buy things, they must say thank you and think about paying for them. Although many people are not short of money, what we want is that kind of calmness. Remember: there is no free lunch in the world, and enjoying harmony and happiness requires money. It is a kind of wisdom to spend countless pensions on learning. It is better to be more open-minded and righteous if the money is not used up after death. Spending all the savings is not an option. After all, it would be sadder to lose all the money before death.

> Eight things to remember: Being sloppy is no small matter. It's okay to be lazy as you get older, but don't be lazy about dressing, washing, and hygiene. You can maintain the revolutionary tradition of hard work and simplicity, but you must remember to be neat and tidy. These days, the world has become a global village, and countries and people are more closely connected. Don't let your sloppiness affect the ecology of your family. You must know that your hygiene and your clothing are not your own business. They are the brand of your family and the face of your children. You don't care, because there are too many people who care.

Nine things to remember: Never save junk like money. There is a saying that "a broken family is worth a thousand dollars". That was a saying last century. Being curious about everything is a sign of aging. Keeping things now should not be based on whether they are useful or not, but whether they are used frequently or not. Things that are not commonly used may not be remembered when you actually use them, and you may not be able to find them when you remember them, so it is better to get rid of them early. Big items need to be updated as soon as possible. It may not be easy to spend money to chase them away in the future. Whether there are more or less things in your home, you will know immediately by looking at how much of your home's "skirts" can be exposed.

>Ten things to remember: Don’t always think about relying on your children. Eliminating loneliness is all about yourself. Since the courtyard house was converted into a unit, the dream of a small family has been released. The life of a small family is like a private car. Although they all run on the same road, no one wants to carpool. The elderly should learn to drive their own cars. Even if they stay alone for a long night, they should move forward bravely. Making friends and saving friendships is what the elderly should do as early as possible. When you can no longer play and move around, you can still make phone calls to new and old friends to exchange favorite topics.

Remember: Be yourself so you won’t be lonely, because there is only one person in this life who can be with you forever, and that is yourself.