Don’t reason with your woman

Don’t reason with your woman. I often hear men say that they hope to find a knowledgeable and reasonable woman as their partner, but things often backfire. It usually seems like...

Don’t reason with your woman. I often hear men say that they hope to find a knowledgeable and reasonable woman as their partner, but the situation often backfires. It usually seems that those knowledgeable and reasonable women are married by others, and their own women are the most unreasonable. Please don't doubt your vision. In fact, other people's women just appear to be knowledgeable and reasonable on the surface. Your woman may treat outsiders better than they do, but you are not an outsider. You are the person closest to her. In front of you, she does not want to hide and there is no need to hide the unreasonable nature of women. So you can also comfort yourself this way: She is being unreasonable to me because she loves me, so maybe you will feel better. This characteristic of women being unreasonable will definitely be reflected clearly when you quarrel. Maybe it is because you are at odds over something bigger than sesame. At first, you will try to persuade each other. As a man, you are used to logical thinking. You think it is reasonable to go all over the world, so you start to tell the facts. Reasons, and list one, two or three to her, but you will find that she can't listen at all, and will refute you with a lot of reasons that are not reasons. If she really can't convince you, she can even cheat. If you say that she is unreasonable, she may tell you directly: I am just unreasonable, what's wrong? You must feel helpless, right? Why can't she understand such a trivial matter? That's right, it just doesn't make sense, and I also advise you to stop talking. Women are inherently irrational animals. If you insist on using rational thinking to convince her and use rational methods to solve problems, how can she fall for you? That will only make the two people quarrel more and more fierce! If you really want to end this war, then don't reason with her. Just be aggrieved, lower your attitude, and stop arguing with her. If you continue to argue like this, she might say that you don't love her! Aren’t you even more incapable of reasoning? Think about it, did she marry you because you were good at reasoning? I really hope you will love her and pamper her forever. Now you forget to love her and dote on her, and you always want to reason with her. You are very reasonable, you can reason, and you can say that a white horse is not a horse. She has known it for a long time. She just won't accept your trick, so what if you have a hundred reasons? In fact, as long as you do a little favor, show a little attentiveness, say something sentimental, give a small gift, and show in your eyes that you have not forgotten to treat her well, she will be willing to listen to you even if you are completely clear about what is wrong. Between a woman and a man, as long as you treat her well and you treat her well, she will be willing to be a robber if you are a robber; if you are a traitor, she will be scolded along with you. But you don't love her, no matter how great you are, you are a sage emperor, whether you are unreasonable or not has nothing to do with her - this is taking things to the extreme. The important thing is that her basic consciousness can be like this. What reason do you want to reason with her? One day, if she happens to be talking to someone else, you might as well pay attention. You will suddenly realize that she is very reasonable when talking to others! It can be seen that she just refuses to reason with you. She deliberately refuses to reason with you, which of course implies that you should treat her with unreasonable feelings. It's a pity that you read Kant's "Critique of Pure Reason" from Plato. You are deeply involved in the theory, and you are also deeply obsessed with the theory. You are so smart that you just can't remember when to be reasonable and when not to be reasonable. I know that your heart will be unbalanced, but family is made up of emotions rather than reason. It is not a place for reasoning and settling accounts. You are not a lawyer, and she is not a judge. Therefore, smart men will not reason with their women because they cannot be reasoned with.