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Men also want to find someone they can rely on

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Men also want to find someone they can rely on (Alberta Times) Some people think that saying this is cowardly, but it is not the case, because everyone needs someone to rely on. Because...

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Men also want to find someone they can rely on (Alberta Times) Some people think that it is cowardly to say this, but it is not true, because everyone needs someone to rely on, because there are many things in life that can make people feel heartbroken, exhausted, and tired. They all need a place to lean on and take a rest. Reliance is not just for women, men need it too, sometimes more than women. I often hear women say that they want to find a solid arm to lean on to gain comfort and solidity. In fact, men also need it. He is not looking for an arm that is stronger than his own, but a soft place where he can rest peacefully, not a solid but a gentle perch. A man's dependence is different from a woman's dependence. His dependence comes from a gentle greeting, from a simple intimacy, or from a woman's coquettish coquettishness, or from a woman's concern and complaint. Sometimes men need women’s nagging, women’s complaints, and even more, women’s endless talk about their day’s experiences. You may see a grown man lying in the arms of his woman, listening to the woman's story, just like a child listening to his mother's story as seriously as he does, and he is dozing off a lot. When they listen to women, they don't want to know anything, they just want to listen to music and enjoy the expression from the heart of the person they love. Men need to understand and even need a little care. Even a trivial question is a kind of beauty. Some people say that they hate their women’s nagging, which is true, because this woman is nagging about topics that annoy men. It really makes men feel that they are not listening to their women’s words, but listening to a kind of noise. Men are also afraid of loneliness, even more than women. They are afraid that their women will no longer speak or speak what is in their hearts. They are afraid that their women will go away, and they will feel uneasy even if they leave for a short time. Men's reliance comes from their emotional persistence and loyalty. They feel that emotional persistence and loyalty are more important than anything else, because what they fear most is a fire in the backyard, because that will make them lose their belief, that is, the meaning of life. The meaning of life comes from the fidelity of human nature. Once men feel that there is a lack of humanity, they will feel that there is no longer anything trustworthy in this world, and they will become a walking zombie, and there will be no happiness at all from now on. Men's dependence also comes from respect. They believe that each other's emotional respect is second only to loyalty and persistence in feelings. They believe that all feelings come from persistent loyalty and mutual respect. This kind of respect comes from subtle expressions of words, but not from a grand ceremony. Maybe it's a simple birthday gift, maybe it's a simple gesture, it's all respect for yourself. Sometimes they don't need something so specific, just a heartfelt concern. This man is both vain and practical. When men are most sad and lost, they will cry like women. It is just a kind of catharsis. At this time, all the woman needs is to touch her head, say a few words of comfort, don't walk away, and enjoy the silence with him. This is enough. In fact, men are also annoying sometimes, but they are not as real as women. They do it secretly and they will not say it. Men are also very fragile, because they bear more than women. Even a woman who is stronger than a man will not bear more than a man, because a man is a carrier shaped by God who needs to bear, and you can't escape!

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