The Ten Commandments of Marriage

> The Ten Commandments of Marriage, whether it is a country or a nation, or a company or a company, in order to consolidate its own rights and interests, it is always necessary to formulate some harsh laws, or rules and regulations, and ask people to abide by them...

In order to consolidate its rights and interests, whether it is a country or a nation, or a company or a company, it must formulate some harsh laws, or rules and regulations, and people must abide by them seriously. Marriage law is one of the country's major laws. With this law, humans and animals are distinguished and a relatively sound and harmonious order is laid at the grassroots level of society. However, the law is not a magic weapon. Even if you never break the law or break the rules, it does not mean that you can guarantee a happy marriage and a happy family. Marriage is a vital and subtle union in human life. Just like when we write an article, it is not enough to only know the grammar and word modification. It is best to make an outline for yourself and set some rules beforehand, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort in the future. Here is a draft of the "Ten Commandments of Marriage" for your reference. 1. Avoid marrying artificial beauties. Nowadays, with the advanced technology, you can make your eyes as big as you want, as high as your nose, as tall as your chest, as thin as your waist, and as big as your buttocks. It’s like pinching a person’s face. I heard that there was a man who married a beautiful woman as his wife. I don’t know how proud he was, thinking that having a beautiful wife was a sign of success. When my wife became pregnant, she was even more excited, hoping that soon she would have a child as beautiful and lovely as my beloved wife, and how happy the family would be! Unexpectedly, the little thing was born, black and ugly, and the father Ren Shi was so frightened that he couldn't believe how this devil-like monster could be his own flesh and blood! Later, when he went to the government, the wife had to admit that the child looked like her mother, and she was originally like this! 2. Stop marrying same-sex couples. The reason is very simple. If everyone follows your example, sooner or later human beings will be like dinosaurs and disappear from the earth. In order to prevent the world from being disillusioned, please leave the seeds! 3. Avoid getting married for the sake of getting married. This situation may not be common, but it is not impossible. Seeing that all my friends in the same field are getting married one by one, I gradually feel lonely and unbearable. I feel anxious, so I lower the conditions for choosing a spouse again and again. When you wake up and realize that the bowl of rice is choked, it is already too late! 4. Stop marrying purely for wealth and appearance. Or should I say, don’t be fooled by the superficial beauty. It stands to reason that it is natural for a man to be rich and a woman to be beautiful, so we don’t need to boast about being arrogant. What I want to say is that character, virtue, and education are also very important. Don't be indiscriminate and jump into a money hole or a beautiful girl at all costs, lest you end up with a warm and fragrant nephrite but an embroidered pillow! 5. Avoid getting married for revenge. Are you dumping me? Do you think no one wants me? If you look back, I don’t want you! When you get angry, the goods under the moon suddenly become fashionable. With a click of your hand, you are a ready-made groom. What will happen in the end? A dumb person who eats Coptidis chinensis knows the suffering! 6. Avoid getting married just to avoid getting married. In this case, it is mostly because you want to marry the person you love, or to avoid an unacceptable person, and hastily find someone to marry who is not your favorite. Undoubtedly, your sentiments are noble and your heart is kind, but you will not be the only one who will suffer, but four people! 7. Avoid making a loss-making marriage. What you want is beauty, what she wants is treasure, it's like bartering, fair trade, as long as both parties don't default, outsiders have no control at all. As for those who do not hesitate to use the body as a ladder and the soul as a springboard in order to climb the dragon and the phoenix, you should avoid it. But everyone has done it, and it doesn’t matter if you are one more. Just remind yourself that there are traps everywhere, so don’t lose your money! 8. Stop marrying late. Not many people get married early, but late marriage has become a trend. Life is short, and if you don’t enjoy the joy of youth, you won’t let the fireworks in the sky explode and show their most brilliant brilliance. It is a small loss for you, but it is a big loss for your children and grandchildren who are unable to enjoy the happiness they deserve because they are late! 9. Avoid marrying someone who does not share your interests. As the saying goes: People with different paths do not seek each other. He also said: A thousand cups of wine is too little to meet a close friend, but half a sentence is too much to talk without speculation. Just imagine how one person can bury his head in three graves and five scriptures, and the other can only pick up six tung trees all day long, but he is wrong and the horse is talking about the wrong thing. How can he get confused by "butting up"! When he was young, he was busy with his own affairs. Fortunately, when he grew old, the two of them were inseparable, and they couldn't even exchange a word of speculation for a long time. How could they live their lives! 10. Don't bargain for gifts, dowries, and banquets. It's a lifetime thing, and if conditions permit, it's okay to splurge. But if there is discord due to greed, and the in-laws become enemies, or if you borrow money for the sake of face and bring your finances to the brink of collapse, then you have turned a good thing into a bad thing! I hope lovers will eventually get married and their love will last forever!