Special Mother's Day plan: My mother's American education method for me

Mother's Day special plan: My mother's American education method for me Phoenix City Li Zhe I have often claimed that my parents have not cared much about me for decades. I think this is the reason...

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I have often claimed that my parents have never cared about me for decades. I think one reason is that I automatically obey the rules, and the other reason is that they are busy. Something happened recently that made me discover something new: It turns out that they happened to use American methods.

In the past few years, especially this month, some small things have reminded me of my best friend in my teenage years. I didn't get to meet him much, but my interactions with him helped me grow a lot. Not only did I see more light in life from him, I still regard him as a role model to this day.

The development of my friendship with him is inseparable from my mother. My mother rarely interfered in my relationships with my friends, but I remember her commenting on my friends many times. She only admired this best friend, so the reason why I went out or came home late was often because I was with him.

My mother's method is obviously not traditional paternalism. I call it American because it is very close to the thinking of the founding fathers of the United States. Their focus is mainly on the future that they cannot control. They are not superstitious about their own doctrines or ideas, so they do not use any dogma to brainwash them. They all choose the power they can rely on in the long run, and then establish the influence of this power. This is a pragmatic approach, not a way to build a reputation and build a reputation for oneself. This is a way for the ancestors to plant trees to provide shade for future generations, not for their own benefit. Although the benefits they received during their lifetime were quite limited, they received sincere love from future generations, far more than 37 or 46. They are the cutest people!

It doesn't matter whether they are objectively the cutest. The important thing is that my love for them brings more light to my life. The important thing is that I can regard them as my role models. What's important is that I learned how to treat my daughter, how to win her lasting love, and how to have confidence in her future.

It is not difficult to be the cutest person like this. First, we must be humble, and second, we must be optimistic. Being able to see the strengths in others and knowing your own weaknesses leads to humility. If you are not afraid of temporary setbacks, you can be optimistic. With these two items in mind, when "making wedding clothes" for others, no matter how powerful you are, remember that you are not the protagonist, that's about it. No matter how powerful you are, it is not easy to remember your responsibility to "serve the people". At least you cannot want everything others want...